Thank you Dr Judy, I was married to a narcissist and each of my kids have had psychological issues-yesterday it hit me that each child is playing one of the four roles. No therapist or psychiatrist in the last five years has mentioned this and now I feel like the heavens have opened and I can see me and my kids are not crazy, this is a normal reaction to the conditions of our dysfunction. I had been praying for more insight to help me help my kids….I saw my youngest child at 14 falling apart–he is our mascot; I feel more hopeful now that I have a greater understanding and compassion for what each child has been secretly struggling with—other professionals we’ve seen do not see our family through this lens of narcissistic parenting—it all makes sense, I feel a greater sense of hope that through this understanding we can start to heal some of it. So blessed to have accidentally found you today. Happy Healing New Year to All!

by | Dec 31, 2017 | Conversation of Peace

Growing up I always New a big pet of me did not like my mother but at the same time she always told me no one would love me more that’s she does, I couldn’t understand but I believed her and believed all her insults to me, screams. There were always secrets and abuse but grew up in a culture were it was “normal” I was always at someone else’s house. Always being asked to be quiet. I used to think how am I going to have a conversation when I grow up? I still struggle and I’m looking for help.

by | Dec 30, 2017 | Conversation of Peace